Purifying Intention and Prayer

Purifying Intention and Prayer

Purifying our intention is something that all of us do, even if we aren’t aware of it. Think of a time when you were upset with someone close to you, and an impulse came from deep within to want to strike out. Instead, you decided or unconsciously something stopped you, from just blindly acting out.

What happened was that you had a change of response. You had a purer intention, either consciously or unconsciously, that didn’t want to create harm. Many of us don’t realize that this significant part of us can create a different reality in our present day world. 

There are many of us that are aware of this part of ourselves, as well as feeling that at one level ordinary life and desires and the way we were conditioned isn’t leading us to a feeling of fulfilment or greater peace. This frequently results in a keener interest in looking inside ourselves for answers or guidance. 

What often happens to those of us that recognize that our desires don’t satisfy something deeper inside us? We are frequently left with an empty feeling. Worse, we also might have discovered that making these desires our central focus leaves us frustrated too, as it rarely delivers the satisfaction we seek. 

Many continue on the path of wanting more wealth or success or lovers or children or houses or cars or vacations or playthings. But sometimes it is at such moments in our lives when we start sensing a deep longing for a life of greater heartfulness, which requires us to purify our intentions. For many the answer comes through prayer.

Spirituality encourages the natural human response to purify intention for a life of greater heart, God, or for the essential qualities of love, peace, grace, tenderness, faith, empathy, intuition, generosity, warmth, and more. The meaning underlying prayer is essentially reaching for something from a source beyond our own ego. When we speak about yearning and prayer, it is important to trust our own most sincere practice. 

Purifying Intention and Prayer 

It is important to stay open to the meaning and essence underneath the words we use. Words such as “religion, spiritual, God or Godless” can all act as triggers that largely project black and white images. Sometimes we have a tendency to judge something as right or wrong, good or bad, constructive or destructive, if that is how our minds have been programmed to perceive these images. 

Some spiritual teachers use the word “intention,” which can potentially describe opening to our essential heart, in order to move beyond ordinary self-centred desires. When our intentions encourage us to reach for this essential nature or heart purity, there is little difference in purpose from prayer. 


We can envision that we are sending our prayers or intentions to a Source far greater than our ordinary sense of self, and perhaps even within ourselves.

It hardly seems to matter whether we envision “God” as being inside of us, outside of us, or as a universal kind of intelligence. It does matter in the deepest sense, however, that we cultivate enough purity of motive to expand beyond the desires and defences that make up most of our ordinary lives and create our sense of self.

In simple terms, when we use the words purifying intention, we mean a sincere asking.  We want to expand the instinct to open our hearts to more of life. Our intention is to support greater flexibility for anyone’s choice of path to represent this sacred and creative impulse that miraculously exists in the human spirit.

What matters is that we are sincere when we look for a purer motive and intention that will benefit ourselves and others. It also matters that we include as much of life as possible in our request. 

Do you really want to be closer to your heart or soul?” 

This is my way of inquiring as to how much we want to pray, or set an intention rooted in the heart, when they are feeling alienated, afraid or separate. When we are clear that we want this kind of prayer to happen, we are already on this is a path in itself. 

Pure intention and praying can be used whenever we remember to do so. It can apply and be useful in every moment, and most particularly when we feel lost, which is often the time when we most forget to utilize our resources!

It is easy it is to ask for help when you feel good. It is much more challenging to do so when you feel sad, lost, depressed or disappointed. Our intention needs to be sincere to be effective, which requires truly wanting that which is beneficial in the moment.

It also requires us to stop reinforcing our defensive reactions and attitudes that we normally lug around with us.